That’s fucking insane. People will always hurt you, cause that’s what life is all about. If they can’t hurt you, it’s cause they’re not close enough, so what’s the point? You have to be close enough, you have to let yourself be hurt in the worst ways you can imagine, cause it means your are living it for real. Only the people you love are able to scar you for life, and you know what? Scar tissue is the strongest of your body (as Roitfeld said), so if it’s just the pain in the end, you’ll be stronger. And you would have lived. Like that Mystery Jets song, “it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved anyone”, but you can’t truly love if you don’t want to be hurt, if you are scared to be hurt. You will always hurt people. And they will always hurt you back. Cause we are humans, we have flaws, we don’t know what we are doing most of the time. Specially when it comes to feelings. So don’t wish people won’t hurt you. Wish they will make you suffer, a lot, cause then you will be feeling. And wish they will make you laugh, and think that’s the most amazing thing you have ever lived. Wish they will make you break all your promises to yourself, that they will tear your life apart and upside down, make it all a huge and complicated mess, but it will be so fucking good you won’t mind. So wish they will hurt you. In the worst ways, in the best ways. Cause that’s love.

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